As we grow up, we get used to listening to others.

Parents, peers, friends, colleagues, bosses, partners, relatives, lurkers, fans, and haters.

All of them with their opinion of how it should be, what we should do, why we should worry, where we should go next.

But as we grow up, we also need to remember that part of that growing up is owning our own opinion. Choosing our path, unapologetically, and living according to our feelings, values, purpose.

We cannot outsource our life.