It's not what happened in our past that determines what will happen in our future. Instead, it's the stories we tell ourselves (and others) about what happened in the past that can have a profound impact on the stories we tell ourselves (and others) today and tomorrow. We build narratives to make sense of what … Continue reading It’s the stories
Tag: empowerment
Keep them close
It is very easy to project fear,anxiety,doubts,concerns,pressure,shortages,anger,failures on others. That's what most of us do most of the time, as a shortcut to get those things out of the way. The problem is, other people care, and relationships get increasingly challenging when projecting becomes an habit. One way to tackle this, is stop considering what … Continue reading Keep them close
Start yesterday
One of the greatest misconceptions of our days is that we can connect only when we are at our best. I am not going outside as the outfit I wear is not appropriate.I will not meet anybody as my hair have not been done yet.This is not good to publish as I look like a … Continue reading Start yesterday
Two steps
Why is this happening to me?Why are they doing this to me?Why is this situation so unfair (to me)? This is where most people start from. And so the first step is the step of curiosity, taking yourself out of the equation and becoming genuinely interested in what is going on. Both inside and outside … Continue reading Two steps
Voice your state
The next time we walk into a situation with a negative feeling (anxiety, fear, anger, shame, doubtfulness, sadness, preoccupation, ...), a way to unlock the impasse is to voice our state right at the beginning. I have had bad experiences before, this is way I am afraid and anxious. I don't usually do a good … Continue reading Voice your state
Two gifts
The two greatest gifts a leader can give their team are the following An interesting problem to solve - Something that looks at the future, a new path to discover, a way to improve on what has been done so far.The support and resources to help them solve it - Tools, budget, attention, care, shielding, … Continue reading Two gifts
Time to leap
When most of your time is spent doing things you were doing yesterday. When the most common answer to ideas is "something to keep in mind for the future". When you get lost in planning and details, postponing what matters in search of perfect. When you and those around you are busy, and yet that … Continue reading Time to leap
