The fact that Apple goes against Facebook (and others) on privacy matters should not come as a surprise.
Apple is the company of the 1984 commercial. It is the company of Think Different. It is the casual and relaxed guy opposed to the formal and uptight adult of the Get a Mac campaign. It is the solitary teenager who makes us cry in Misunderstood.
Few companies have managed to maintain such a consistent brand over decades.
Apple is the company against the establishment and the common way of thinking.
And now that they are part of the establishment, they still find ways to be consistent with their brand.
They have won already.