How much of your serenity, tranquillity, ease, peace of mind, joy comes from work, family, friends, me-time, or something else?
It’s a difficult question that probably leads to even more challenging answers. But by understanding that, we could probably better allocate time, resources, concerns, stress, stakes.
One example. If family time is what gives you strength, why worrying so much about losing that particular job, to the point you are making family time less pleasant?