We only see our side of the story.
That’s why when we go to someone with something that’s important for us, that becomes urgent.
That’s why when we read through an email we only notice the parts that confirm what we already know.
That’s why when we find new evidence we are sure that’s the one that will convince everybody.
And that’s also why we should be extremely careful when giving judgements, passing sentences, and building walls.
The target is to be convinced (of your values, your purpose, your views) and open (to other perspectives and versions) at the same time.
Can you do that?