How is it that when we feel out of place we go on a crusade to show the world we actually belong?
When someone points at one of our flaws, we insist in denying it. When someone shows us a mistake we have made, we immediately think they are wrong. When facing the fallacy of our argument, we go to great lengths to distort reality and adapt it to what we are saying. When in a role that has never suited us, we try to play the part up until the damage is just too big.
We spend a great deal of energy trying to be what we are not, to protect things we normally do not care about, to convince ourselves and others of something.
We should rather just accept that we are not particularly good at most things.
And move on.