Outcomes

We do most things because we expect an outcome.

But we have this wrong, in that it is not the outcome that defines the things we do.

If we write a blog post, and nobody reads it, likes it, shares it, we still have a blog post. There is nothing different in the work we have put in, in the tools we have used, in the practices we have followed, in the experience we have made. The act of writing the blog post, and the blog post itself, is not enriched (or impoverished) by the number of visitors it gets (or it fails to get).

And so, a smart first step when you choose you want to ship, is to free yourself from the trap that is the outcome. That is the only way to do with consistency, even when no one is watching, to make of doing a practice that sustains your motivation, your creativity, your purpose.

Outcomes are volatile. Doing has the power to be forever.

The spiral

What are the things you absolutely need to get done today, this week, this month, this year?

What are those things, and why, what purpose do they serve?

If you do not have answers to these two questions, if you shrug them off with a “too many” or “they are important”, it is very likely you are not going anywhere. And when you go nowhere, you end up taking on more. An endless spiral of unimportant and unpurposeful.

When someone asks you how are you, focused is a thousand times better than busy.

Share it

If you have knowledge, share it.

If you have an idea, share it.

If you have a project, share it.

If you learned something, share it.

If you plan something, share it.

If you have a purpose, share it.

If you have experience, share it.

It is the best way to broaden your perspective and actually get things done.

Uncomfortable

Doubts, uncertainty, rejection, feelings of inadequacy come attached to every idea.

And the answer, of course, is not to stop having ideas, developing them, sharing them, advocating for them. The answer is getting comfortable with the uncomfortable, accepting that having ideas is but the first step in a long process that could, and actually most of the times will get you nowhere.

When you are ready for that, you might even end up somewhere. It is worth trying.

Leaking

Work leaks into your personal life, news and preoccupations leak into your personal life, continuous demands of attention leak into your personal life.

And to some extent, that is fine.

At some point though, that becomes untenable, and that is precisely what you need to be aware of. When does that happen? How does that manifest? What can you do about it*?

Lacking a system that keeps this in check means gradually losing track of yourself, your thoughts, your strengths, your limits.

No work, preoccupation, demand can be tackled if that happens.

* I have recently started keeping two distinct apps for emails, one for personal emails (that I have heavily cleaned and optimized) and one for work emails. If you tend to drift to work stuff in your free time, you might give this a try.