I wanted to buy a shirt for my son. It was a red one, with one single word on it: “Uff!”. I said it was perfect for him, since he is always complaining and he is never happy with what he is given.

He ended up buying another shirt. An orange one with a dragon on it.

The point being, people rarely want to hear what you think is better for them, who you think they are, where they should or should not focus for their development.

Instead, they want to tell you about what they think. And they want you to find it in your heart to abandon your prejudices and support them no matter what.