The things you believe you do to others, you actually end up doing them to yourself.
The smart comeback to your colleague’s comment is going to hurt a relationship that is important to you.
The reply you have not sent to that important message is holding the project back and yourself accountable.
The carefully planned revenge on the person who crossed you once is taking all of your energy and focus.
The lie you are saying to get ahead this time is giving permission to others to lie to you to do the same.
The silence treatment you are giving your partner is not contributing to a relationship where you feel comfortable sharing and growing.
The only way to achieve what is important to you is to treat others fairly and kindly. The rest is just an elaborated narrative we tell ourselves to keep us from committing and moving on.
Let go and do instead.