If your dream is something you are 100% sure you will be achieving, something you are comfortable with, something you have already done before, that’s not a dream.
If your project is something that no one else has ever achieved, something that is not well defined, something that will take years to complete, that’s not a project.
Using the right definitions and assumptions for the right thing will bring you close to success.
How much of your serenity, tranquillity, ease, peace of mind, joy comes from work, family, friends, me-time, or something else?
It’s a difficult question that probably leads to even more challenging answers. But by understanding that, we could probably better allocate time, resources, concerns, stress, stakes.
One example. If family time is what gives you strength, why worrying so much about losing that particular job, to the point you are making family time less pleasant?
A great resolution for the new year, in case you are late and wonder how to jump on the bandwagon, is to give up on your phone.
Not completely, not immediately.
Start with one hour. Leave it off, in another room. Or even better, check your weekly usage report and start with those apps that you feel are wasting the most of your time. Get rid of them, hide them, lock them.
If you manage to do it consistently for a few days in a row, it will stick, I promise.
The reward is now.
What will the new year bring?
The end of the year is not an eraser. Just like you do not become immediately wise and adult the day you turn 18 (or 21), the new year will not give you a new you, free of old fears, uncertainties, pains, and problems.
So, the question really is: are you ready to handle all of that in 2023, and perhaps make something out of it?
If the answer is no, there is your new year resolution.
Many restaurants claim the serve Italian food. Few actually do.
Many managers claim they give freedom to their employees. Few actually do.
Many start-up claim they are out to change the world. Few actually do.
Many people claim they are the best in their field. Few actually are.
Many influencers claim they have influence over their audience. Few actually do.
As it turns out, the more you claim, the less you do.
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