Out of fear

Every decision you make out of fear is a decision you should not make.

Fear of being cheated.

Fear of being hurt.

Fear of being unsuccessful.

Deal with the fear first, and only then you will be equipped to make a decision.

The place

You don’t need to find a new way.

You don’t need to learn a new skill.

You don’t need to meet new people.

You just need to be ok with wherever it is you are now.

The rest will come.

Or not.

People change not because of a resolution, not because of a revelation, not because of a reprimand.

They change because change is continuous and ever present.

When we think of us changing, it is usually just us looking back and accepting what has brought us here.

That’s change.

It’s not you..

There probably is no sentence that bears the power of immediately making things a lot more personal.

And of course, it’s probably true.

It’s most likely not about you.

You only have finite resources.

And when you miss your targets over and over again, you either change the targets or you change the resources.

It turns out, changing the resources is not as efficient as one might think.